Keeping the Romance Alive:

Creative Date Night Ideas for Newlyweds

There is a natural trajectory from marriage to comfortability. However, being comfortable doesn’t mean you have to lose your relationship’s spark. In fact, you can spice things up in a totally different way after marriage. For date nights, you can find new hobbies to learn together, places to explore, or ways to celebrate your love. As newlyweds, your journey is just getting started, and creative date nights can be the key to infusing your relationship with excitement, intimacy, and memories that will last a lifetime.

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How Dating Is Different After You’re Married

Early on in dating, you and your partner were likely worried about first impressions. You could have gone to a coffee shop or movie theatre and felt as though it was revolutionary, just because you were experiencing it with your new love. Now, you’re married and can have those ordinary experiences with each other more often. It’s easier to slip into comfortable companionship — and that isn’t a bad thing, per se.

The science behind love reveals that the longer you are with someone, the more likely you are to have feelings of companionship. These feelings release oxytocin and vasopressin — hormones that increase your emotional attachment to that person. You feel warm and comforted, and the feelings of excitement that you first had during lust or initial attachment have naturally decreased a little. These intense feelings were dictated by dopamine, serotonin, testosterone, and other addictive hormones.

Luckily, you can infuse dopamine into long-term relationships by doing novel things together. To have a happy married life, you must actively work to stoke the flames of romance. The excitement and good feelings of fun, and new activities can only add on to the intimacy you feel for your new spouse. You may still be in the honeymoon stage, moving in together and starting a thrilling new chapter. However you’re feeling, the following unique ideas can make date night an exciting part of your routine that nurtures your bond and maintains your spark.

Getting Outdoors

Nature provides a plethora of ways to get creative for date night. Getting outside naturally boosts your dopamine and serotonin. Consider making it a point to visit all the wildlife preserves, parks, trails, and green spaces in your local area. Create a scavenger hunt for a little friendly competition and a romantic prize for the winner.

You can even integrate your or your spouse’s hobbies to show you care. Outdoor activities for tech enthusiasts, for instance, include geocaching, drone flying, storm watching, apps for nature observation, and storm watching. You can even take up a new hobby together, like nature photography, and enjoy the learning experience.

Camping

If you can’t get enough of each other or the outdoors, consider some creative camping. If it’s your first time camping, this is a novel enough idea to bond and make impactful memories. You can figure out together the right size camping tent — for two people plus gear, you may want to opt for a three-person tent. Just be sure to choose the most comfortable option, like a rectangle tent, for optimal fun. If your spouse is a more seasoned camper, they can enjoy showing you the ropes of pitching the tent or making a fire. You can even plan ahead for some creative additions to camping, like setting up a projector for outdoor movie viewing or bringing a telescope for top-tier, cosy stargazing.

Local Activities With a Twist

Whether you’ve moved to a new city together or have shacked up in a familiar town, you can keep an eye on local events for date ideas. Look for seasonal festivals, concerts, or classes. Even if it’s something you wouldn’t normally do, take a chance and try it together. If it’s a little bit uncomfortable, you can bond with your partner over the anticipation and excitement.

Beyond local events, you can take ordinary date-night spots and transform them into creative newlywed adventures. Try going to a bookstore and having a competition to see who can find the most book titles related to your relationship. Bonus points go to the most creative explanations. Take a pottery class and make bowls for an at-home ramen-eating contest. The options are endless, and experiencing each new activity with your spouse will bring you closer together.

At-Home Date Night

When just married, you are likely excited about living out the honeymoon phase in a new home. Use that to your advantage and plan some at-home date nights. Some ideas include:

  • Cooking competition;
  • Spa night;
  • Scrapbooking your first year of marriage;
  • Board games with an adult twist;
  • Planning a vacation;
  • Creative cocktail- or mocktail-making;
  • Painting each other;
  • Learning to dance.

 

Try to take what you already enjoy and put a sexy spin on it to spice things up. Get your cosiest blankets for a more tame night in with movies and popcorn, cuddles are required.

Moving Forward

Getting into the habit of planning regular date nights is a great way to set your marriage up for success. Use some of these ideas to spark your creativity, surprise your partner with fun activities, and keep the romance alive for years to come.